"I'm going to save the world. I am going to change the way that everyone behaves and thinks."
Should we believe ourselves to be in the correct position to change others and tell them how to lead their lives? This is first thing that happens upon Awakening. Is it not becoming clearer how little we can directly change Others around us?
Others will change when they are ready to change -because they will not see the need for change before so, no matter what you present to them.
How many Vegans does it take to change a meat eater?
10, 100, 1000, 10,000?
How many Buddhists does it take to change someone from the Christian faith?
How many tonnes of plastic in the ocean are required to change your use of plastic at home?
How many signatures are required on a petition to make a difference to your life?
Numbers don't change people. Attitudes change people. Events change people. So what can you do?
The most important person on the planet at this time is YOU – because it is YOU that should change first - for the better. Others will notice what YOU are becoming.
Only YOU can change you, not Others.
People know what is happening, they know about the floating islands of plastic, they know about the production of meat and slaughter of animals, they know about the financial institutions, the corporations, the religions, the governments - and yet they continue their lives unchanged with that knowledge. Why?
Individuals develop their own characters, identities and habits based on their chosen set of circumstances. Looking at the bigger picture, it is more secure and comfortable to repeat patterns of behaviour because it is a reflex or responsive action that has been learnt over time. They know only one way to act in any given circumstance that happens to them. They remain locked in fixed patterns until something happens to them to change that – often something that has to be dramatic and completely life changing.
Throw a ball at someone, they catch it. Shout at someone, they get upset. Ignore someone, they feel insecure. Creation followed by reaction. Cause and Effect.
For those who have experienced an emotional or painful event, the survival instinct kicks in and stores an emotionally charged memory to alert them to a response the next time the event occurs. The next time, a threatening situation occurs, the body and mind are primed for the experience in advance. The memory replays the emotions of the previous experience in readiness to what is believed is about to happen. Any number of scenarios can be played out by the mind, long before the event actually takes place. This is a fear response and demonstrates that mental thought alone can create emotional turmoil and physical illness.
Daily, these fear responses are re-enacted, with only very few anticipated events actually taking place. Many live their lives in avoidance through fear of what might happen.
What If - Be careful - Don’t do that in case - They will think badly of me - I will make a mistake - I will get it wrong - I will embarrass myself - I will upset them - They will leave me, I will be on my own, I will be rejected – They will destroy me.
YOU got this.
YOU got this far. YOU got through all you have endured. YOU will continue to get through all that is to come. Life is not an illusion, it is not a figment of the imagination. It becomes the reality of the experience you go through, it hurts, it feels and it lives. You cannot deny or dismiss what someone goes through, the very real hurt of living through a hurtful experience. On this planet, in this reality, you truly earn your wisdom.
Living your Truth does not mean that you suddenly develop the right to do as you wish. It has often been said that you are not responsible for anyone else’s behaviour or emotions. But you may well be the 'cause' of their emotion as a direct result of your actions. How someone chooses to react is their choice, but why they need to choose that reaction is the 'effect' of your co-creation.
By denying someone the facts of an event, by with-holding the truth of all the information, by not stating the full story – is actually disempowering someone the right to make a fully informed decision. Your intention may not to hurt but the impact of withholding information is denying access to the whole Truth. Discernment and compassion always is required to reach a mutual and informed understanding and is paramount to engaging the Sacred Truth of your Heart Consciousness.
You may decide that someone is not ready to hear all that is to be heard because of the consequences you believe will take place – but in doing so, this may create a conflict inside as you withhold what needs to be said. This becomes stored in the form of a blocked emotion – an emotion that has been raised in energetic form but not expressed into manifestation. By working on 'blocked emotions' we can change our response to fear and bring empowerment to the event for all.
In discussion with a Higher World Teacher, the following wisdom was given: "We will not ever choose to lie to you because that would create mistrust. However, we may choose not to reveal information to you that we do not believe would be in your best interest at this point. You might say that a parent does not choose to tell a small child about all that goes on in the world until they have a sufficient level of understanding to deal with the information.
So what do we do instead, we choose to behave in the best way that we feel is right for the circumstances. We can choose that we don’t have to follow the expected or learnt pattern!! We use the knowledge of our Hearts, our Sacred Wisdom to determine what is best for all. That is all we can ever do".
So, when someone throws you a curved ball, don’t catch it. When someone shouts at you for not following the rules, don’t get upset. When someone ignores you, don’t feel insecure.
All are choice - it just requires breaking the habit. The higher path is always the best one to take. Others will know this to be true, within their hearts, no matter how it makes them feel.
The Way of Truth or no Way.
Be True to your Self – Others will follow.
That's how the world will be saved.
With Loving Blessings <3
Paul Dobree-Carey / Polaris AB
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