Once you are connected to the flow of All There Is, you will automatically feel independent of situations, people and places around you. As you become aware of being connected to all, you will realise that you are not attached or subject to or under the influence of your surroundings. It is only lower energies which attach themselves to you which distract your focus and attention. The key is to maintain the higher vibrations through choice not circumstance and to master staying within the flow of Source.
It is by focusing on yourself that you will be of most benefit to others. Unless you focus on maintaining your own high energy then all around you will pull that energy from you automatically. Water will always flow to the lowest level - so it is with your energy and those around you. You will find that you will be able to ‘see further’ than the others around you, the higher you are to start with. You will see the bigger picture rather than just the problem itself.
Everything around you then starts to provide you with meaning – a negative situation leads to a positive outcome because all will tune itself to your higher ideals.