Polaris AB: Cosmic Questions and Answers
I wanted to know how I can continue to develop myself spiritually, help others and somehow stay in higher vibrations when my own family and friends are still being negative and living in lower vibrations and negative emotions?
How can you help others to change if you cannot do so with those closest to you? It is not your role to change others, only your Self. Like you, others will change when they are ready to change - no-one requires 'saving'. If you have grown accustomed to the ways of others, whether family, friends or colleagues, then you will have created a way to be around them. Your interactions with them have created expected patterns of behaviour which determines how they see you and you them. Like becoming a jigsaw piece fitting within the space created by the other shapes around it. In doing so, you have been automatically changing your energetic state to try and compatibly match others around you to provide validation, identity just so as to fit in and be accepted.
Higher frequencies are changing these established patterns of behaviour. This will begin to manifest as changes in how you present your identity to others. You begin to understand that many of your relationships were dependent on energy exchanges in which you freely and willingly gave up your energy to others to make them feel good about themselves through your help, support and your personal efforts. You have been giving away your power to sustain others behaviour and that has shaped how they behave towards you.
Whilst you continue to reward certain behaviours with energy, you become a useful friend, colleague or family member to be around - but this a position that can leave you drained, resentful and unfulfilled. You are a source of energy that others can feed their own appetites from. This is preventing them from achieving their own growth, true identity and recognising the consequences for their actions and behaviour.
Self-responsibility is the key to changing the World as it exists NOW. When ALL recognize that they are part of the whole, that each thought, decision and action affects all others and that each person is responsible for EVERY single event that happens to them, that is when the World will change to fully incorporate the Fifth Dimensional energies.
So how can you use this Self-Responsibility key to unlock the new World? - by recognizing that YOU are the New World, you are its centre, you are the origin, the beginning, the start, it is YOUR behaviour, your energy, your outlook, your interaction with others, your power of Self.
All of this creates your World around you - its all about YOU.
What World do you want to live in?