Polaris AB: Cosmic Questions and Answers
If the main person in your life calls you the most terrible awful things when they feel hurt, but you know their background, and you don't fully identify with it anyway. and you become desensitised in the end....should you leave?
I had hoped that we would get to our dream. ...but waiting for that I may miss what my life purpose and gift for expression really is. There is a lot of love there but maybe now I can see that it cannot work. I feel I have something special to do. ..and I want to get there.
Who is most hurt? - the person calling out the most terrible things or the person on the receiving end of the words. If you are strong in your Self, you will recognize the times of weakness in others. This is the time for recognizing what it is about YOU that is attracting these behaviours from another. This is not about fault or blame or responsibility. Rather than change the actions of another, look at what you can change about your Self. However......
If you are not willing to change your Self to suit another because their behaviour is too severe, then you will not be able to maintain a compromising relationship with them. If you choose not to change your Self because to do so would be losing a part of who YOU are, then you must consider the importance of the relationship to your life. There is a vast difference between being allowed by another to do what ‘you want’, and having the complete freedom to make your own choices.
Many relationships created within the energies of third dimension are no longer surviving within the Higher Vibrations of Fifth Dimension. What once attracted one person to another no longer provides sufficient purpose to maintain a mutually dependent connection. It may be time to look along your own time line and see whether the relationship is adding or detracting energies from achieving your purpose.
Love will always remain at higher levels and you are certainly connected at these levels with everyone that plays a part in your life. Unfortunately, understanding this does not always step down to lower frequencies and relationships in third dimension may not recognize these loving connections due to the lessons they bring. This time is all about YOU and achieving your own purpose. It is one thing to provide support to another to help them achieve a greater purpose but quite another to sacrifice your own purpose because it does not suit another. You will soon know if you are supported by another when you choose to focuse on your purpose instead.